There is a big problem with Indian society – they interfere too much in a child’s life. The decision of what a child should become professionally is unfortunately decided mostly by parents and not the child himself. The problem is that parents’ decisions are driven by social norms. Therefore, they will try to coerce their children into becoming socially acceptable professionals like engineers, doctors, lawyers, CAs instead of something which the child would enjoy more. This is also reflected in the movie 3-idiots.
I encourage our student readers to go for a profession they would enjoy. As someone has said, you should be doing what you do when your mind wanders off studies or work. Understanding what is it that you like is INTROSPECTION.
- Do you love socializing and get people excited about something – you could be a great sales person or a HR manager!
- Did you love assembling PCs for your friends and families? – Great, get into hardware consultations.
- Do you want to play games all the time – why not be a game engineer?
That’s very simplistic but I hope you get the drift. Find out what excites you and you shall never have to work a boring job again.
It is never too early to introspect. Perfect time is to do this before Class XI but even if you do it before joining college, it’s ok. Forget that, it is even beneficial to do this while you are in college because you still have time to choose your first job. Lack of exposure in our schools and colleges has aggravated this problem many fold and I see students following herd mentality instead of listening to their inner voices. I have covered this topic more extensively in this article-
In future posts, we will tie this up with how thorough introspection helps in getting into awesome universities abroad. Stay tuned.
I will end it with this philosophy-
I don’t want to earn my living, I want to live – Oscar Wilde
Now, we are not blessed with automatic means of survival and livelihood, so we do need to do some work. But work doesn’t have to feel like ‘work’, you can enjoy what you do. So, find out what is it that you will enjoy doing 🙂 Need help? Contact us.